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[UPDATE: Amnesty International tells Egypt to probe mob attacks on women (Question: Why do they have to be told?)]

This is hard news:

Egyptian women protesters sexually assaulted in Tahrir Square – Mob attacks small group calling for an end to sexual harassment as women continue to demand a ‘new Egypt’ post-Mubarak

Before I was a psychotherapist, I was (and still am) an anthropologist. I understand the evolutionary heritage of our particular branch of the primate family tree. I understand that our species has a social adaptation (we survive as a social unit, unlike, say orangutans), and that critical to that adaptation is that males have organized “military” power, while females have charge of rearing our highly vulnerable young. There is a power imbalance inherent in this, and one sees this in all places, at all times, in our history. Those who rail against our “patriarchy” do well to understand how deep lie its roots in our species. It is not an ideology (though ideology may be used to justify it at times), it a biologically derived social adaptation.

That said, it has long been time for change, and it surely IS happening, though hardly overnight. For example, women are becoming the majority at many institutions of higher education, throughout the “developed” world, and in many other places as well (I heard today that this is the case already in Libya). Yet there are still many issues to resolve, and many, many places where they need resolution.

Consider, in my country – the U.S., “…40 years ago doctors in America were prosecuted for providing women with birth control, and women risked jail for using it”[1] And to this day, there are very significant forces in my country who would deny women access to birth control. One of the two major US political parties regularly fields candidates who oppose any kind of public funding for birth control, and who in fact would be fine with making it illegal. Backward leap anyone?

New version of “All Your Base Are Belong to Us” – All your uterus are belong to us!

Kind of catchy, don’t you think? Certainly reflects the mindset of those guys in the US – not mention those cultural conservatives in Egypt who regularly grope women in public. Their message is clear:  women are for their control and use.

So…take note – of the ongoing struggle in Egypt, and the courageous women at its center (read the article above to learn to what I am referring). The last paragraph of that article:

“Women activists are at the core of the revolution,” said Ahmed Hawary, who attended Friday’s protest. “They are the courage of this movement. If you break them, you break the spirit of the revolution.”

I’m no authority on gender and names in Egypt, but I believe that’s a male speaking – the women are hardly alone in their struggle. And I’ll wager that those women won’t break.

Let me close by giving the highest praise to the cordon of men who put themselves between the female core of the protest march and the mob around them, and who continued to attempt protection when their cordon was shattered and they were significantly outnumbered. It must have been a fearful melee.

Real men do not assault women. Real men appreciate and protect them, and all who need protection (and that includes other men), against those who would do them harm without justification. Let us pray that the veil of ignorance obscuring the vision of the male perpetrators of the assaults reported in the article above will be lifted sooner rather than later. It is only right, and the only outcome that can be acceptable to all of us.

Note

[1] Griswold, Privacy, and the Right of Women to Religious Liberty, downloaded 2012.06.09

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